Psychology coach that gradually gets to know you
Faced immigration crisis in 2025 and wanted to create a coach for myself. Can’t afford therapists at 100 EUR per session. Took the Selfology questionnaire as a foundation and connected AI to it.
Before/After
Before: Therapy session once a week → $100/hour → expensive, or → $30/hour → generic advice like “live one day at a time”
After: Talk to AI anytime → $25/month → “I feel stuck” → AI finds your exact words from three months ago about fear and one month ago about perfectionism → connects dots you couldn’t see. Coaching approach with Socratic method.
Selfology helps me get through immigration crisis, midlife crisis at 35, and live more comfortably with ADHD.
How It Works
Step 1. Special onboarding based on Selfology questionnaire with 1,513 professionally crafted questions. AI analyzes answers and fills vector database, forming a “digital personality fingerprint”.
Step 2. Answer questions at your own pace or use one of 17 quick-help programs. Among programs: immigration stress, career change, “releasing baggage”, FOMO, “AI is everywhere — what should I do?”
Step 3. Every answer saved in vector memory. When months later you say “I’m stuck”, AI searches your history, finds patterns across different conversations, and reflects them in new light.
Result. A coach who knows your history, adapts tone to your personality, and is available anytime.
Technical Architecture
- Intelligent Question Routing — balances easy/difficult questions, continues themes
- Vector Memory (Qdrant) — 3 collections: personality, evolution, memory
- Smart AI Routing — 40% GPT-4o-mini, 50% GPT-4o, 10% Claude → ~$25/user/month
- Persistent FSM on Redis — progress isn’t lost on restart
- Adaptive AI Coaching — personality profile influences communication style
Real Numbers
- 1,513 curated questions across 17 programs
- Cost ~$25/month vs ~$100 per session
- 24/7 availability, 3-10 second responses
- Live product: v1 with questionnaire (2021), v2 with AI memory (2025)